Pasadena Singles - European Dating in United States

I'm a S/W/M,51,5'7",210 lbs.,long blonde hair,blue eyes (compliments), full red beard/mustache. Seeking a female, who is straight, who is mature, has a gR8 sEnSe Of HuMoR, ISN'T a smoker OR a pothead, street drug user nor a drunk/alcoholic. There's a lady out there who wants the same as I do=marriage, yet I'm divorcing, so if you have no problems with that then we can talk. I was married for nearly 20 years & I'm without kids/alimony. In the last 5 years of marriage, she chose to cheat on me & I'm still in a lot of pain from that because I was 151% FAITHFUL from day 1 & she had no reason to cheat, but it was her choice. Like everyone else, I'm not perfect & have my faults, but it's the choices we make all the time that makes the difference between doing right with our mate & doing them wrong. I prefer that as we get to know each other better, that we are intimate as well, although it's not a requirement, only a request & you can choose not to if you're uncomfortable with it without regret or anger by me.I'm very open minded & most others, for some reason feel comfortable around me & are relaxed-maybe I put them to sleep? :) I do have a nerve disease that's very painful 24/7/365 in both arms/legs & I use crutches at home & a manual wheelchair when away, so I hope that IF you leave a message that you'll already know this so I won't need to make 100% sure you do & that you're ok with this-it's nothing that I caused myself, it's from a car VS. bus accident 21+ years ago & it's permanent as well as it's progressive...getting worse as time passes & causes other health problems. IF you're looking for money from me for you to be with me then you're a "Gold Digger",so please move on. I want a wife whom I can love until 1 or both of us dies while being there for her in every way.